Family Service Centre

The internet is out AGAIN in our flat! It seems like every other week we are calling the tech people down to fix it, ask us why we keep unplugging the router (which we don’t), and leave us for another week of struggling to get connection until it craps out. I realize having to walk 10 minutes to the computer lab is such a 1st world, privileged thing to complain about, but it’s happening. The complaining has actually gone down since I’ve been feeling better.

The typhoid seems under control now. I was put on a special diet for 3 weeks of boiled vegetables, fruits, white rice, yogurt, and hard-boiled eggs. It’s not too bad considering I love fruits and veggies, but going to the tiny, crowded store after a day at work is definitely not high on my list of happy things. Also, I’ve now started actually dreaming about steak and chicken fried steak. I think I’m having some sort of meat withdrawals. Sometimes I literally daydream about preparing, cooking, and eating a ham – all the steps, up until I’m laying on the couch in a meat coma. How sick is that?

Work is amazing as always. I know I haven’t said much about it, but that’s because there is so much to say. The agency is tiny, 7 full-time social workers and 12 paid volunteers, but serves over 15,000 (if not over 20,000) people. Isn’t that insane? If you had told me that before I came here, I would not have believed it, but it’s true. The work is so much different than in the states – it’s all preventative instead of intervention based, the social workers are never in the office, and the programs are all created with huge input from members of the community. They were the first agency in all of India to offer adoption and foster care services, and even now they have such an innovative and exhaustive list of services they offer their clients. It really is inspiring to be here. My favorite program is called the Women’s Self-Help Group, which I thought would be some sort of counseling, but is actually a group where the women lend each other money to avoid the high interest rates of the banks. Each woman pitches in 20 rupees (less than $.50) a week to a common fund that they can then lend money from with a small interest rate. Each month the women in the group pick one woman to loan money to, it doesn’t matter for what, and that woman then starts paying the loan back the next month. The group has been meeting for over a year now and has accumulated more money than they can keep track of, so my agency opened bank accounts for all of them, and now one woman every month is given 500 rupees for her account. They are even lending money to their husbands! Can you believe that? This small group of fisher women, who make around $100 a month, are now so self-reliant that they are supporting their husbands. It’s incredible. It makes me so happy when I get to meet with them, speak in very broken hindi (then end up getting everything translated anyways), laugh with them (usually at my crappy hindi), and see how empowered they’ve become because of this program. Moments like these are why I feel so fortunate to have come here, to learn about social work in a country that has so many grave problems you would think the slum people would just give up on life. It’s really, really inspiring. In total I would say there are about 25+ programs offered, some really small (an activity group for children) and some spanning continents (international adoption). Like I said, there is so much to share with you, so I’ll have to do it in bits.

For now, here is a neat picture I took of a monkey on campus, and one of my train stations (it was in Slumdog Millionaire!):

Outside CST Station at 5pm

Trying to get to my train

This guy is comtemplating life and love and bananas.

 

Hope you all are well!

xoxo Katie

 

 


Well I’m Hot Blooded, Check It and See

Well hello there friends! Yes, I am still alive and living in India!

      The past month has been very eventful, and a big blur due mainly to the fact that I’ve unknowingly had typhoid fever for most of it. Please let me explain how someone who is vomiting, having “stomach movements” as they call it here, high fever, dizziness, headaches, and extreme tiredness does NOT know something is wrong and fails to see a doctor for 2.5 weeks. The explanation is I might have brain damage, and I’m worried for my future babies. Ha, all joking aside, the symptoms were so erratic – high fever one day, passing out on the bus the next, vomiting after that – I thought that it was just trouble adjusting to my long work days and the food and maybe not drinking enough water. I would come home around 7:30-8pm exhausted out of my mind, do my daily journal, maybe eat, and then sleep until 6am and get up and do it all over again. Finally last Friday I was so sick that I saw a doctor and got blood drawn, only to find out I have high levels of Typhi O and H. A rush of relief washed over me that yes something is wrong, and it’s not just my inability to adapt to India. Then I read how typhoid fever is caught. My friends it is caught by eating the feces of someone that has typhoid fever. YES – the FECES. And to answer your next question, no, I haven’t been eating giant typhoid shit burgers since I’ve been here; it must have been because someone didn’t wash their hands before preparing my food. Thankfully my field instructor Pekham insisted that I take the week off to take medicine and rest, despite my pleading that I need to start doing research, because now I can see just how sick and exhausted I was. I not even sure now how I managed to be out from 6 – 7:30 everyday, walking all day, without passing out more than the one time I did. At the moment I can barely walk 10 minutes to the other campus without feeling exhausted and subsequently getting fever. Hindsight is 20/20 right? RIGHT.

So, now that you know why I have been absent from your life for so long, here are some pictures of me (pre-typhoid), our flat, the other international students, and the Ganesha Festival:


Welcome to the Jungle Baby…

Finally I am feeling well enough to write proper post about my first 6 days here in Mumbai! I’ve never had jet lag before, and always imagined it to be fairly easy to manage, but I’ve been a mess. If I even sit in my bed during the day (it’s a 10.5 hr difference) I lapse into a semi-coma for 5 hours and wake up feeling like a grumpy, groggy zombie. A zombie that wants to lay back down and remain dead forever. Quick funny story relating to that…. I needed to get some passport sized photos done for my school ID card, a library card, my train pass, etc., and had to meet a student at 4pm so she could help me find the place and get the correct size. I unknowingly fell into a zombie coma which resulted in meeting the girl late and getting to the photo place in a rush. So we arrive and the place is an actual studio with back lighting and makeup kits and various brushes. I have not looked in a mirror because I was rushed to get out of bed (by the way I had put my kameez (shirt) on inside out and had to change in the photo studio bathroom), so I’m groggy, hungry, and anxious to get back to my flat and go back to sleep. I sit in front of the camera and it goes like this:

Photographer: (Hindi words)

Student: “He is asking if you want to brush your hair”

Me: “Umm, no I’m fine, thanks”

Pause

Photographer: Looks at me through the camera (Hindi words to student)

Student: “He is asking if you have something to wipe the grease off of your face… so it won’t be shiny”

Me: “Okay” (wipes my forehead on my kameez)

Student: “Are you sure you don’t want to brush your hair?”

Me: “I’m fine thanks, let’s just take the pictures” (okay I sound like a rude b, but did I mention I’m exhausted, and just want to go back to sleep???)

So we are taking the pictures and the photographer is yelling out things in hindi, which are being translated, “move your chin up!” “smile bigger!” “look happier!” I’m trying to look happy and awake and not have a double chin but I am just so TIRED! Then the photographer hands the digital camera to the student and mutters something which was not translated to me, but by the look on his face could have been something like, “what do you expect, homegirl won’t even brush her hair”. The pictures that came out are nothing less than magical. At a brief glance I look okay, but upon closer inspection I look SO BUSTED – hairs sticking out of my ponytail, one eyebrow looks much larger than the other, and grease all over my shiny cheeks – it was hilarious. The best part is that you can tell I’m trying to look super happy, and smile really hard, while I am still halfway into a zombie coma. They asked if I wanted to take more pictures and I said no, only because it is such a funny story, and funny picture, and I deserve to have a busted picture for being rude.

Well, that story took longer than I expected, but hopefully it was worth it. Things here are incredible. Every day for me is a new adventure, and everything I do (I got water! I found the train station! I know how to say the number 4!) feels like a huge accomplishment. The TISS campus is set near a mountain in the jungle. It’s monsoon season, and raining all the time, which makes the whole setting very peaceful (and perfect for unexpected zombie comas). I have been to my internship at the Family Service Centre twice, which is located in downtown Mumbai, and the setting is quite the opposite of my campus life. I’ve been told that downtown Mumbai is the financial capital of India, similar to NYC, and most people living here commute to that area. After living in NYC for half a year, let me just say that downtown Mumbai is NYC times 100.There are so many cars and people (20 million!) and buses, all never following any of the traffic laws. Getting there is an adventure in itself… I take a rickshaw to my train station and board the train. YES, the trains absolutely look like the pictures, with people riding on top and hanging out the doors. Then I walk 20 minutes down the Colaba Causeway, past banks, a museum and art gallery, and the high magistrate of India. My agency is very tiny (both physically and staff-wise), but has a wide variety of programs such as coastal cleanups, foster care and adoption, group counseling, health care services, etc. It’s amazing to see one agency provide so many different types of services, rather than just one specialized service. On Friday I handed out food to patients that were going to receive treatments for TB and HIV. My agency gets food donated by a hotel and they wait outside the clinic, prepared to hand food to clients in their program. It was really heartbreaking to see such sick people – skinny and coughing, barely able to walk in some cases – rushing to get their meds and go to work, even though the medication makes them ill. Really makes me reflect on my life in the US, and all our access to resources.

In addition to work, I will be taking a seminar class here on Mondays, and Hindi classes on Wednesdays and Thursdays. I’m SO excited!!

There is SO MUCH MORE to write about, but I think this is a good intro to what’s been going on! Short version – Things are much different, so exciting and new, and I am very, very happy right now.

I wish every single one of you were here to experience this with me. It’s life changing, and I’m so fortunate to be here.

xo Katie

 


Namaste from India!

I’ve MADE it and I am absolutely exhausted!! I do not have internet access in my room yet, thus limited access to internet, but I want to let you know how much I appreciate your sweet words and kind thoughts.

The first night was so hard – arriving on campus to a weird, empty dorm room and being left with my bags and a key. No one told me anything about where breakfast was, where to go, how to get in touch with the international office, etc. Needless to say I got little sleep and cried a lot. Since then things have been exponentially better, and I can’t wait to share everything with you!!!

Again, thank you for the all the warm wishes, and I will post soon!

xo Katie


Hello!

Seeing as I’ve given this web address out to many of my friends and family, it seems appropriate that I should write something for you to read. For those of you stumbling on to this site by accident, my name is Katie and I am getting my Master’s degree in Social Work at the University of Texas San Antonio. I’ve lived in Texas most of my life, minus a few months when I lived in Brooklyn with my brother and sister-in-law (shout out to my homies in Flatbush – thanks for dealing drugs on our stoop every day). This is my last semester before I graduate, and I’m fortunate enough to have the opportunity to complete my advanced internship  in Mumbai, India – an adventure that begins in approximately 21 hours.

I guess technically my adventure has already begun because I have left San Antonio (after a tearful goodbye, in which I could not understand a word my mom said… I am convinced she is convinced I’m going to end up on I Shouldn’t Be Alive: Mumbai Jail Edition, or Locked Up Abroad: I Shouldn’t Be Alive in a Mumbai Jail Edition) and am currently in the Chicago airport, en route to Munich, Germany. I can’t say enough how grateful and excited I am for this adventure. I’m so excited to learn about a new culture, learn what social work means in another country with different cultural values, and to hopefully open up an avenue for future students in my program.

So far my new experiences include a little kid puking (next to me on the plane), and a grown man openly picking his nose in public for 5 min 43 seconds, so please check back for more substantial postings in the near future… along with much higher quality experiences.

xo Katie